Quick Nook Note: See Here’s the thing, Lust just doesn’t care. Self- control is needed whether you are in a single state or in married life. Many times as singles we think, well I wouldn’t have a problem with lust if I were married. Truth is, Lust is Lust. If you struggle severely with self- control before marriage… Read More Lust Doesn’t Care If You Are Single or Married.

I went on a 10 year anniversary trip and as I was reading a great book on the beach called ” Prayers for Victory in Your marriage“,  I realized the biggest lesson I learned after 10 years of marriage. This lesson was definitely not the only lesson I have learned, but probably the biggest lesson up to this point… Read More The Biggest Lesson After 10 years of marriage.

  I know when we are dating we pretty much think that the person we are dating is pretty close to perfect! And we attempt to get engaged to the person we feel will provide for us the most happiness possible. Isn’t that what the world teaches you, to expect perfection in a relationship?   … Read More Flaws & ALL

His Favor, Her Protector- The Gift of Marriage I want to start off by saying there is a gift of marriage and a gift of singleness, each having its own unique benefits and blessings. I am grateful for those walking out their single season and grateful for those who have chosen marriage, so today I… Read More His Favor, Her Protector, & The Gift of Marriage.

  So what is a tendency?   It’s being prone to a particular kind of thought or action; essentially a way of behaving (YES WE ALL HAVE THEM).   So, let’s admit that we all have our personal idiosyncrasies and tendencies when we are by ourselves, but when it comes to releasing some of our… Read More Releasing Single Tendencies

  I think it’s very important for those singles who desire to get married to become very strong and solid individually. I’m so happy that God’s will has allowed me to grow and gain all that I needed in my single season before crossing over into becoming a married woman. I believe if God sent… Read More Strong Singles Wanted

When I set out to write this book I wanted to write something for those who were walking through their newlywed years, to encourage couples as they were walking through those years. I also wanted to share some conversations about some of the things you go through when you are transitioning from Ms. to Mrs, and insert some great information from… Read More Why Newlywed Confidential?

Both men and women struggle with these two powerful words! It’s an issue we are all faced with from time to time; deciding to react to your feelings or follow your commitment. Commitment means: the state or quality of being dedicated and loyal to someone or something, or the attitude to support something. To have… Read More Commitment vs. Feelings

I was scrolling through reading an article the other day and I saw the phrase “Layers of Love”.  When I read that phrase over and over it made me think of the rings on a the inside of a tree.  A tree ring is simply a layer of wood produced during one tree’s growing season. … Read More Layers of Love